It’s no secret that we are living in pretty butt-centric times. Even as far back in 2014People were scratching their heads at the resurgence in pop culture of round, juicy bottoms. And even then, it was a cultural movement that had been brewing for years.
This is not an academic thesis. However, this culture of butt led to greater comfort when talking about the fun things that you can do with it. Rimming, pegging Anal sex. And if people are talking about them, it’s no great mental leap to imagine that they’re doing them, if not more than ever, than at the very least with more abandon than ever before.
There’s just one aspect about it that may strike one as odd: while people are enjoying more butt play, the three forms of it that are being espoused the most (pegging, rimming and anal sex) are a partnered style of play. Anal masturbation is less well-known. This is a solo act that can be just as enjoyable, and can even be more fun if you do it right.
Although solo anal play is easy to grasp, there are some helpful tips to help you get started.
A bottle of lube could be your only investment.
Because there’s not one correct way (ie, with a finger or with a sex toyTo stimulate your prostate, anal opening or canal, you can use this. proper lubrication is essential. You should avoid friction when it comes to anal stimulation. To avoid abrasions, even when you’re not penetrating the anal opening but rather massaging it, having some glide will allow you to do so comfortably.
However, a toy may come in handy if your hand alone doesn’t cut it.
Although there are many toys for anal stimulation that have been purpose-made, you can also use a dildo. Traditional vibrator for anal playing if that’s what you have on-hand.
An Anal sex toy such as a butt plug Ideal is the one that matches the contours of your anal cavity. They also have a flared base or hooked base that makes it impossible to lose a toy to get ‘sucked in’ You will need to go to the ER if you have these symptoms.
The first step is to prepare yourself for pleasure. Don’t simply go straight for the butt stuff when you’re taking your first forays into anal self-pleasure. Before you begin knocking on your front door, be in the right mood. Doing so will ensure that you are relaxed and more receptive to the sensations that you’ll be experimenting with.
You can even try masturbating in a shower. The hot water will make sure that your muscles are loose and ready to assist you.
Position yourself correctly
If for whatever reason you don’t want to or can’t experiment in the shower, assume the classic position: lying on your back, bring your knees up to your chest. Place a pillow underneath your butt so that your hips point up. This position will allow you to easily reach your hand or a toy.
You can likewise try the doggy position (on your hands and knees), which will also allow for easy access, however in both cases remember to position yourself over a towel so that you won’t have to clean your bedsheets afterwards.
Trim your nails, for goodness’ sake.
Keep your butt clean and free from sharp edges, jagged edges or corners to avoid tears and fissures. You should also take care of your fingernails. You will be able to rest assured that your mitts are clean and well-maintained.
Colin Hanna is a Volonté contributor and freelance writer who lives in Shanghai, China with his wife. He’s written extensively about sex and human sexuality for LELO since 2010.