As someone who was voted “most pessimistic” in grade school, it seems it’s in my nature to be a skeptic. When I heard that penises can squirt just like vulvas, I immediately questioned its legitimacy. A way of penis-owners saying: “Well, I can do that, too!”
But, I was told by a sex educator about this bodily phenomenon. Lola JeanThis woman is very credible. She currently holds the record for volume squirting.
“Though I’ve not experienced it first-hand, the description sounds very similar to my (and others’) experiences as people with vulvas,” Lola shares. “Multiple accounts describe the feeling leading up to it ‘like a tickle’ and the act of squirting ‘like a different type of pleasure along with the sensation of a release/relief.’”
I interviewed a variety of self-professed squirters and a health professional/urologist to find out the mechanics behind male squirting. They also discussed the bodily fluids involved and the best ways to achieve it.
What’s In It?
Since this is highly speculated by people with vulvas, my initial curiosity was to check the contents of the squirting liquid.
The best available research has found that a vulva-owner’s ejaculate comes from the Skene’s gland (known as the “female prostate”), which contains prostate specific antigen (PSA) and prostatic acid phosphatase, as well as some components of urine.
However, for penises sufferers, the urologist is recommended. Justin HoumanMD confirms that fluid contains 100% urine.
“During a typical orgasm, the pelvic floor muscle contracts, which triggers the prostate, seminal vesicles, and testicles, to release the various components of semen,” he explains. “However, during male squirting, the pelvic floor muscle contraction is so strong that it triggers the bladder to contract as well, making the bladder release its stored urine as an involuntary contraction.”
Arys, 28, observes that when he squirts there are times that “it definitely smells like pee,” adding that it will often occur when he masturbates prior to his morning pee.
“It’s definitely urine,” Jacob, 26, assures. “I will drink lots of fluids just so I’m able to squirt much more from a full bladder because it feels amazing.”
What’s The Technique?
Many squirters use a similar technique, placing their palms on the tip (or head) the penis. They call this the “overstimulation method.” (Interesting fact: this technique has also proven to help penis-havers with shy bladders urinate in public spaces, like urinals.)
“This is likely the most common technique because it will most likely trigger strong contraction of the prostate and pelvic floor muscles, which leads to bladder contraction and ‘male squirting,’” Houman says, adding that individuals who aren’t circumcised might have an easier time squirting since the skin and glans is more sensitive.
“First, I use lube; or in my case, spit,” Eren, 18, who posts squirting videos on Pornhub under the username Amateurswissguy, tells LELO. “Then I start rubbing the lube/spit all over the tip of my penis.”
Eren recommends that you use lube to keep your penis head slippery. This is vital since it is where the majority of the action happens. After stroking his shaft for a few minutes, Eren begins to rub the tip of the penis with his palm in small circular movements.
After about five to seven minutes, Eren describes that the pressure and squirting sensation becomes stronger and eventually, he squirts, describing the sensation as a mix between “the urge to pee and an orgasm.”
Everyone is different, so techniques may vary. Jake, 29, finds it’s easiest to squirt right after he has ejaculated. Using lube and “cuffing your hand and swivelling it around,” Jake (or a partner) will continue stimulating his glans post-orgasm “for an unbearable 15 seconds,” where he will feel “faintly orgasmic, but mostly sensitive,” before experiencing an overwhelming urge to pee.
Some people find anal stimulation can help them get over their edge. “I was playing with my toys and getting rough (in a good way) and I felt the urge to push out, Like pushing out a crap, while thrusting the toy in me,” Jacob recalls of his first time squirting.
Dr. Houman says that anal play stimulates the pelvic floor muscles which can lead to a stronger bladder contraction.
What does it Feel Like?
The general consensus is that squirting feels like a mix between “nearly orgasmic” and needing to pee.
“It feels like your body is having an orgasm with contractions and facial expressions, but the feeling in your dick is similar to peeing,” Eren expresses.
Arys adds that, while it does feel amazing, it’s also uncomfortable, describing the sensation as “the same uncomfortable feeling one gets when someone keeps sucking your cock when you’ve orgasmed.”
But, just like with female squirting it is not possible for everyone. “Only a small fraction of people have the ability to trigger their bladder to contract during orgasm,” Dr. Houman says. “Some people have the potential to do it, but it is not something that can be practiced.”
So if you’re curious to try squirting, try doing so using the above methods. If, try as you might, you can’t spurt like a water fountain, don’t be too hard on yourself. At least you don’t have to tidy up afterwards.
Bobby Box, a certified sex teacher and journalist, has been writing about homosexuality for almost a decade. His work has been featured in numerous reputable publications across the internet. He is currently Grindr’s sex columnist.