Valentine’s Day is the perfect opportunity for adventurous players and couples to enjoy a mixture of romance and kink.
And because there’s no such thing as one-size-fits-all when it comes to love and lust, it would be truly impossible to recommend one date idea or gift that will surely get one’s motor running.
Do not be afraid! There are plenty of options available for you to choose from, including some that will be spicy and others that will appeal to your preferences and tastes.
Below are some ideas that we think will be popular. Whether you’re a homebody or looking to let things get a little wild, LELO is ready to rock your Valentine’s Day with these six kinky Valentine’s Day ideas, and eight sleek, elegant, and orgasm-inducing toys.
Sexy Ways to Spoil Her This Valentine’s Day
Date Idea 1 – 14 Ways to Celebrate 14 Days
For those looking to really turn up the heat this Valentine’s Day, turn one day into 14 days, aka 14 Ways to Save 14 Days!
Begin each day with something your partner will enjoy starting on February 1st. Start with innocent gestures such as flowers or chocolate, but then let the days pass and make it more fun.
Try something new in your bedroom. You can reenact a scene from Magic Mike and/or gift her with a super sexy toy she’ll love. The options are endless.
Date Idea 2: Hotel Sex
What’s better than doing it in every single nook and cranny at home? Hotel sex!
For this special day, splurge out a bit and get an expensive hotel room with all the trimmings… champagne, roses, room service, and perhaps a few new sexy toys or pieces of lingerie!
Kinky Valentine’s Day Gifts for Her
SONA 2 & SONA Cruise 2
SONA 2 SONA Cruise 2. They are now available on the market and even more sexy than ever! This toy, made of silicone, is softer than its predecessor and uses PreMotion™ Technology to absorb some of the sonic waves and transmit them back into your body, around the clitoris, for a deeper but gentler sensation.
This allows the silicone to work in tandem with the waves, providing additional stimulation.
What’s the difference between the SONA 2 and the SONA 2 Cruise? While both cause extreme pleasure, the SONA 2 Cruise has a leg up when it comes to getting off…
It is because it can release constant pulsations while in use, giving you an extra boost when you press down hard against the skin.
Are you attracted to the sounds of multiple orgasms? If so, then you should consider the SORAYA 2 is the best way to spend your Valentine’s Day (and beyond).
It’s a rabbit vibrator offering dual stimulation on the clitoris and the G-spot, and has a smoother and softer finish than ever before.
LELO’s Sonographic Design (ultrasounding was used to precisely capture the female anatomy) allows you to know what your body craves and needs.
The ORA 2 is here to prove that you don’t need another person in order to enjoy the effects of being eaten out!
It’s a marvelous and elegant-looking toy that offers thrilling, teasing, and arguably better-than-the-real-thing simulated oral sex.
It has a nub that rotates and vibrates, giving off the sensation of a tongue… but better, and has been designed using award-winning SenseTouch technology. What does that mean? You will feel more pressure, which equals more pleasure.
Sexy Ways to Spoil Him This Valentine’s Day
Date Idea 3 – A personalised fantasy room
Some believe that Valentine’s Day is all about her, but we couldn’t disagree more. That’s the reason why doing something that’ll blow his mind (and his load) this Valentine’s Day will definitely be something you’ll both remember.
You could start your day by leaving a pair or two of your most sensual panties or lingerie in the driver’s car or bag. A note could accompany this gift, stating: “Bring these home tonight and I’ll let you tear them off me”.
For later, make your space his ultimate fantasy. Perhaps he’s always had a thing for a sexy anime character or he’s a big fan of leather. You can create the fantasy space of your dreams with these items.
Date Idea 4: Public Arousal
Begin the evening with dinner and/or cocktails at a (nice!) restaurant.
Take the time to approach him half-way through the night. You can slow dance, or simply lean in to whisper in his ear. “I’m not wearing any panties and I am dying for you to feel how wet I am”.
This is a great way to get high and have some intense sex when you return home.
And to spice up the evening, throw in one of these sensual and erotic sex toys to ensure smiles in abundance all-year-round…
Kinky Valentine’s Day Gifts for Him
If technology and getting off are your passions, then boys, F1S masturbator It will help you realize all your fantasies. It’s a beautiful device that’s been created using science and precision allowing you to be the master of your own destiny.
What is the mechanism? It’s a massager that releases sonic waves deep into the penis via Cruise Control and SenSonic technology. This stimulates nerve endings as well as entire penis. This is a new sensation in sexual pleasure for the high-tech male.
The pleasure of a prostate massager that increases the intensity of male orgasm by as much as a third BRUNO Sex toys for him are the gift that keeps going.
It is equipped with two motors: one at its tip for stimulating the prostate, the other at the base for external pleasure.
It features six vibration patterns and a sleek silicone design that allows for hands-free orgasms. Is there anything better?
Sexy Ways for Couples to Celebrate Valentine’s Day Together
Date Idea 5: Adult Sex Games
You can make any game seem innocent by using your imagination. You should indulge in at least one of these games. Adult sex games?
It’s a naughty game “Would you Rather?” You can also play the board game Monogamy (a sexy spin on Monopoly but with sexual questions and activities) sounds like a lot of fun, doesn’t it?
Date Idea 6: New Persona Sex
Just like Claire & Phil in Modern Family, Valentine’s Day is the perfect opportunity in which to Roleplaying is a great option.
Play erotica at home, dress up in sexy outfits, and pretend to be a nurse or doctor. Or take on completely different personas and meet new people in crowded bars.
Then, when you decide to seal the deal, have one or more of these raunchy toys waiting for you…
Kinky Valentine’s Day Gifts for Couples
The TOR 2 is a vibrating couples’ ring offering pleasure for both parties, enhancing your sexual experience to new heights.
It’s worn by him during sex and not only helps him stay harder for longer, but gives both him and her the added bonus of vibration.
It can be used in many different ways and has been highly recommended to many satisfied TOR 2 owners. The latest review speaks for itself:
“She has an orgasm within a few minutes of me entering her. This is the first time she has ever had an orgasm while I have been in her, which of course gets me off at the same time shortly thereafter.”
Are you still not convinced?
Luxury has the ability to turn you on. That is why luxury can be found in the TIANI 24K It is a very sexy toy. It’s sealed with a 24k gold kiss, and is a couple’s vibrating massager with a remote control made for sharing.
This sleek number has a dual motor featuring LELO’s exclusive SenseMotion technology. While it’s worn by her during sexual stimulation (internal and clitoral), it can also be used to give both partners incredible sensations, creating shared pleasure.
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Ideas for Lovers of BDSM: Bonus Date
Whether you’re well-versed in BDSM play or not, one way to celebrate Valentine’s Day is to turn it on its head, abandon sensual lovemaking, and go for some hard, adventurous, and thrilling activities.
Bondage This is a fun, interesting way to get to know your partner. It’s also one of the best ways for one partner to show the other that they trust you completely.
Why? Well, you’ll definitely need to have a lot of confidence and faith in the person you’re allowing to tie you up, right?
So, if the mainstream doesn’t float your boat, there are a slew of adventurous and kinky Toys BDSM-inspired that’ll cause a thrilling wave of pleasure.
Turn off your smartphones, indulge in a few new props, and learn and explore with your partner this Valentine’s Day!
Helena is a sex-positive freelance copywriter in her early 30’s from Cape Town, South Africa. She’s travelled and lived in various countries in Asia and Europe for almost a decade, and continues to live her dream — traveling the world independently as a copywriter. She has extensive experience in the fields of sexual health, sex marketing, and escort industries.